Sorry. Can a 5 letter word ever mean so much to the human heart? We use it all the time. When we bump into a person, when we accidentally spill something on someone, when we ask them to repeat something, or when we break someone's heart. But when do we actually mean it??
There's plenty of ways that the word 'sorry' can be used. There's the condolence sorry, the apologetic sorry, the harsh sorry, the sarcastic sorry and etc.
Most of the time, sorry is accepted as an apology and the person is soon forgiven. But what if someone doesn't mean it? What about the 'Sorry that I broke your heart'? The pointless sorry that doesn't do any shit or difference to what the other person is feeling. What's the point of sorry after you do all this crap to one person? It's just like saying 'Sorry but I'm going to insult you now so you better forgive me'. Give me one reason why a person should forgive another person after they've broke someone's heart and left them to pick up the pieces themselves. If you don't mean it, don't say sorry, not after you've done something wrong, don't ever apologise. You know what, a 5 letter word doesn't even mean much. Yeah, everyone can say sorry, but not everyone means it and not everyone can prove that they're sorry. Saying you're sorry then doing the same thing over and over again won't make a person see that you actually mean it. It actually shows them that you're oblivious as to what you're actually doing wrong. And that's another point.
Saying sorry but not knowing what you did wrong. If you're just saying sorry because you know you did something wrong, yet you don't know what you did wrong, then that's as stupid as saying sorry after insulting someone. Saying sorry is meant to let the person know that you know what you did wrong, you understand the consequences and that you're willing to make it up to them. If you don't know what the hell you did wrong, then why apologise in the first place? That's telling the person you're inconsiderate of their feelings, you're only using 'sorry' as a normal word. What's even more worse is that they believe you, they believe that you know what you did wrong and you won't ever do it again, which makes them even more angered when you either tell them you don't know what you did wrong or you do the same thing over and over again. If you don't know what you did wrong, then don't freaking say sorry in the first place.
I'm sorry I broke your heart.
I'm sorry for sleeping with your brother/sister.
I'm sorry for cheating on you.
I'm sorry for leaving you.
I'm sorry for hooking up with someone else.
I'm sorry for moving on.
I'm sorry for everything.
I'm sorry I killed your mum/dad/brother/sister/family.
You know what? Fuck sorry. It's used too much now, without any meaning what-so-ever. Next time you say sorry to me, let me know before hand what you're apologising for, then don't even bother saying 'sorry' with your fake ass lame voice and your fake ass lame reasons. Take it to someone else that cares. I give up.
♥ J
